feminist Feminism... few questions and a Big question mark...!!
The other day i was having a conversation with one of my friends regarding the situation of women and why women are usually sad.
That in all the societies women have suffered.. civilizations, religions, regions..across the globe women have suffered since time immemorial... ???
The reason given by my friend was that its all because of women.
"Women are responsible for the condition they put themselves in and they continue to be in that state only. They don't want to come out of that state".This was the argument proposed by my friend.
So let me ask few questions - Does the male society actually accept women being dominant and overpowering?
Isn't the male ego getting hurt again and again ?
From work place to bed rooms we advocate equality, now if women try to overpower,
then the male ego backfires. Why?
In the simplest of the things you don't want to accept the transformation, though we are living in the 21st century... The GEN Y thing is there!
Then why blame women alone?
In a more phased manner let me put forward few simple points-
1.
Your sister is having a boyfriend - How dare she? Doesn't she care about the family values? She will get married according to the family's choice.
Usual condition in almost every family and with every brother! Why??
Even she wants she cant live the way she wants - she is responsible actually !!
2. Heartbreak -If you leave her its fine, thats the male tendency, males are made to do that.. use and throw.
But if she ditches you - omg!
She is not of good character.
She played with my emotions, i loved her like anything. We Men are very committed when we commit (subject to all the terms and conditions)
.....All females are alike..they are not trustable and i wont love again.
A grown beard and few sad songs with multiple bottles of alcohol - The condition of a male after being ditched.
(You know they actually feel broken)
What the hell...then why don't you people always commit and stay stable?
3. The sex factor - Here i would definitely quote that "When Sita failed to convince the masses even after Agni Pariksha..then what are we mortals?"
So..for females.. Everything is not allowed and for males... They are made to ... Fill in the blank database with their favorite means of communication!!
Why so much of biases and why see just one side of the coin?
4. The sibling rivalry - Very well explained by Chandranshu sir that the reason behind all the family quarrels after marriage is mostly sibling rivalry.. but still Women are blamed everywhere.
Why?
5. I am right -Males have this general tendency that they feel they are superior and are always right..But since they have to protect their so called prestige and remain calm.. so they irritate the other gender and enjoy the game by saying that females insist they are always right !
6. We Females are equally a loser after marriage -We leave our houses - first thing first and after that if you dont care then why should we?
And since its a compulsion to bear all the torture - we keep quiet !
In other cases we are not acceptable kyunki, we made people of one family live separately.
And you say that females are responsible for their condition then please think again!
And yes when it comes to working women.. very few of you advocate it and when a woman needs to go for shopping (integral part), then you have
all the hue and cry out there.
Let them work..you wont be burdened with blank bank balances.
7. Females are submissive - Now the ultimate point is females are submissive and they usually dont go overboard..
If they dont submit.. Will you accept her in your life... then she would be too smart to be handled and you would lable her as an independent person who cant adjust in A FAMILY!
Do you males actually understand females.. Before you talk about girls do you ever wonder that even you have a sister who is being talked about... ???
No na...Why?
Because she is your sister and gotta be clean and clear !!
Cause she is your sister?
Go and ask them, how they feel like!
women are actually responsible for their conditions cause they have been made to sacrifice.. be the fairer one and bear it all!
And last but not the least, rape cases, yet again women are responsible because you also say that women have right to equality, but women are supposed to be molested as the price for equality.
Isnt it?
Women are not responsible for their condition..actually women just care too much and always be the loser !When the simplest of the things are not acceptable still in this male dominant society then how can you blame women alone??
Whatever it be...countries, or civilizations.. whatever... We women have always sacrificed out happiness to make you males happy and still
we get to hear that women are not trustable!
"Triya Charitram Purushashya bhagya; Devo na janahi kuto manushya."
